Monday, December 28, 2009

How to make yourself look beautiful? Sexy? Hot?

Ever since high school, actually middle school, I realized that I am not attractive at all. Think about it, guys always want to talk to pretty girls. For example I remember one time that I was in class and there were these 2 beautiful, thin girls and I was there too. I was talking with the girls because they are nice but this dude was trying to make conversations with only those girls and totally ignoring me. I can't think of one guy my age that has told me that I'm beautiful. I can't think of one guy that my friends are like oh he like you or has a crush on you. These beautiful girls you see their myspace pics and everyone is like oh wow you're so beautiful, you're so hot, but no one's said that about my pics. No guy has ever asked me out. I envy my friends who are beautiful. Anyway any tips on how I can look sexy? Oh and I'm sure some people will post insulting comments, that's cool you have the right to your opinions, lol.



How to make yourself look beautiful? Sexy? Hot?

without a pic, I cannot tell if these guys are simply stupid. but I suppose so, from my own experiences.



being at high school, I was always ignored - weighing too much. today, having lost some pounds, all the guys look twice or even more often and flirt. even the married guys...



most men are crap - they only see the styled up, perfectly thin girls - so there might be nothing wrong with you.



check your weight, and lose some if necessary.



look for clothes that become you, make you look sexy, but don't show too much. my last lovers went crazy when seeing me in business outfit, totally closed.



try some make up - supporting your beauty, not changing it. stress your eyes, or your mouth.



behave self-confident, ignore boys. girls that are not after them are a challenge.



How to make yourself look beautiful? Sexy? Hot?

try



cuttin ur hair



dying it



plucking/waxing ur eyebrows



shaving off unwanted facial hair



working out



tanning



buy some new cute clothes



some cute make-up



but its kinda hard to tell w/o a pic...



How to make yourself look beautiful? Sexy? Hot?

this is a fairly broad question, but ill try and give you some advice...



maybe you might like to change your hair colour, and get a different style cut...if you have short hair, you could get some clip in hair extensions, so you can always take them out if they dont suit you, or if you have dark hair, put some blonde highlights in and vice versa. it always makes you feel so much better when you try something knew and you will get alot of compliments and people noticeing.



i find that minimal make up lots alot better...just use a foundation, some bronzer on your checks and a shiny light pink lip gloss...dont go overboard...



if you not already tanned, get a gel fake tan...a reallly good one is (Garnier Ambre Solaire, Gloss bronzer, shimmer effect), which you can get from your supermarket etc...tanned skinned makes you look really toned and sexy!!



umm...yer, i wouldnt really compare yourself to your friends though, just wear whatever you think looks hot and you will feel so much more confident!! guys and so much more likely to talk to a girl who is confident and fun, than a hottie that is boring and hell....



How to make yourself look beautiful? Sexy? Hot?

*please do not shave off any facial hair,



just wax it or go to a saloon to do threading,



wear comfortable cloths not very tight fitting once,



also see what looks nice or suits you.



you don't have to be sexy, you should be



elegant %26amp; study hard %26amp; be smart,



there must be someone admiring you.



just be you nice %26amp; smiling don't worry there is



someone out there for you,



How to make yourself look beautiful? Sexy? Hot?

Have confidence in who you are.



Please remember that society's concept of beauty has consistently changed over the ages, and you shouldn't torture yourself over customs created to make beauty companies rich.



Ask intelligent questions in school. Do extra-curricular activities. Any guy worth having would prefer having a cute, intelligent girl over a Barbie doll!



How to make yourself look beautiful? Sexy? Hot?

Honestly, a lot of attractiveness is how you view yourself and working with what you have. In high school and especially middle school, it is easy to put "perfect" people on a pedestal. Once you are out of that environment it is easier to look at yourself objectively and play up your strengths. Here are some basic tips...



Your wardrobe can make a big difference... Wear colors that suit you. It might help to find out what "season" you are. Wear clothes that are flattering to your body shape -- accent your strengths and downplay your imperfections. Make the effort to actually get ready in the morning and look somewhat polished. Instead of throwing on sweats, throw on a dress -- it really doesn't take that much more effort, but you will feel so much better.



Learn how to apply makeup well - this can make all the difference. Makeup tutorials are a great resource. Again, use colors that flatter you.



Find a haircut that you love, that you are able to style. Magazines sometimes have good "How-to's" from professional stylists.



Two great beauty "quick fixes" are eyebrow waxing and gradual self-tanner (i.e. Dove, Jergens, NOT the stuff that makes you look orange!).



Find a signature scent. It might take a long time of searching, but it is worth it. A little spritz of it every day will make you feel instantly sexier.



So, all of that is actually the easy part. The hardest thing to change is your attitude -- that voice inside your head that makes you feel inferior. All I can say is try to get over it. Look people in the eyes and smile. DON'T compare yourself with others -- I know, easier said than done, but you'll get there. The goal is a quiet confidence with no fanfare, it speaks for itself. If you know you're hot, you will be.



Good luck and I hope this helps! Remember... some people are born gorgeous, but the rest of us have to work for it! :)

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