Monday, December 28, 2009

He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

My boyfriend left his myspace profile up the other day while I was over at his house and he left for the store. Well...I snooped a little and read some of the messages that he had sent and received from a couple of girls.



The girls are all out of state, and they are not his friends.



I could tell by the messages a couple of the girls just sent him a message to say "hi" and they thought he was hot.



I guess they randomly saw his profile and wanted to say "hello."



However he wrote them back and told them he thought they were nice looking too, and he never once mentioned he had a girlfriend.



Also, his myspace is still set at "Single" even though we have been dating for five months. However,



My myspace profile is set at "in a relationship."



Anyway, was he wrong? Is it just harmless flirting since the girls are in another state?



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

I would be a little concerned that he has his profile set at single when he is in a relationship with you.



Also, I do not think it's appropriate to respond to random messages he is receiving from girls telling him he is "hot."



What he should do is A) not write them back at all, because they are NOT his friends, or B) written them back saying "thank you, my girlfriend thinks I'm hot too."



I do not think he should have written them back telling them they are also hot.



That only encourages them to write some some more.



IMO...why aggressively flirt with someone if you have no intention



of doing anything with them!



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

Technically, if you are only dating he is single. Stop being a snoop.



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

confront him but you need to tell him you snooped.



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

myspace is a place to flirt that is why it was made so people could hook up just see how it goes and hang out a little bit and if it works then it does anf if it doesn't then learn from your mistakes. you never know till you try



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

I'd confront him, about it rather than drop him otta the blue, explain how you feel



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

I would say you should confront him on this. Don't tell him you saw the messages, just that you saw his profile and ask him why it's set to "single".



Did he have the profile before you two started dating? That could be why it's on single.



If he's flirting online it is likely harmless but his profile should reflect that he's in a relationship. If it doesn't and he knows it doesn't....there's a reason...



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

I would say no...remember it is just Myspace... :)



Cheers



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

Well the day you bring out what you did (read and snooped) he wont ever trust you. Consider that it being as a test from his behalf to see what you do. I suggest that you keep it to yourself if you infact want this to work out. Now, you getting upset about it ? well you shouldnt had been snooping around in the first place !!!



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

hi there.. we r in d same path thou.. think positive n b sure of urself.. d truth hurts but yes, he is flirting... but online..! guys r guys, they like many ladies to b there in their life but will oni stay true to d one.. hope d one is u.. all d best..



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

He considers himself single and likes the attention of other girls. Is that wrong? If you don't like it, it's wrong. If you think it's fine, it's fine. I think myspace is a joke and I wouldn't have much interest in a man who was into that whole scene.



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

Pretend you weren't nosy and didn't read those emails. Why is his myspace profile status set to "single". That should be a clue in itself.



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

myspace is a joke... he probably feel cool when all the girls talk to him.. he sounds like he is insecure... or maybe he is one of those guys that is a player... i would say set him up but that is wrong.. it is wrong to have a friend of your he dosent know. make a fake profile... and flirt and see what he does... although funny, to me if you got him to meet up with her. and you came out of the bushes saying surprise.. you have just been dumped... but do what you will...



he is an a**



myspace is a joke. i have one but who cares .. people wit 1000 friends yeah right.. and did you know the famous people that have them .. half of them pay people to read and answer it for them...



He's flirting on myspace, what to do?

delete him as you friend and add me badboybruce1@yahoo.com

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